You may have already heard of it, but Coffee Prince (Hulu, Drama Fever, Various Houses of *Ahem*'d Media which I can PM you links to) hits every last one of these kinks. thefourthvine has really good summary/pimp post thingies for the first two episodes here and here. I Am Legend (Drama Fever) also features awesome female relationships; it's the story of a middle-aged high society wife who, upon learning pf her husband's affair, decides to leave him and pursue her high-school dream of becoming a rockstar.